It still isn't defensive necessarily. They started with the act, they didn't react to what you had to say. That says pre-planning. Which is more suspicious than a kneejerk.
Careful with how you term things because people who support them will use misuse of description to get them off the hook. Classic tactic.
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Careful with how you term things because people who support them will use misuse of description to get them off the hook. Classic tactic.